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By Goldfish Rahmatulai.

A time comes in every marriage and relationship known as ” crazy times”. During this time, a woman’s ability to think with her head stops and she starts to think with her emotions. It may interest you to know that when women think with their emotions, every tom, dick and harry becomes a good looking, virile, 6 feet 2inches male and as little as ” hello beautiful ” to your wife will land her on her back with him as the victor. It takes about two to six years of torture ( physical and emotional) to reach “crazy times”.

Another interesting thing about” crazy times” is that it is as a result of continuous bashing and neglect from a never do well husband (honestly only insane women allow men drag them to the crazy time period).

See the categories of men whose good wives will probably cheat at least once and chances are, she will not be caught. These are the situations that result in pregnancies that are passed on to husbands but belonging to the other man not often the case but yes, it happens.

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Men who live away from home and abandon a wife in another country for 2 plus years and is often nasty to her when he manages to call or denies her money. These men believe in the power of their Ds they share with wives four times every 2 years ( ever heard the word” breadcrumbing”)? They are the men who believe that a good woman stays put, has no desire, no emotions, no need for sex and tenderness as long as she prays and fasts. So, he strings her along while he goes on with his life with others while Unfortunately, his wife stays because of societal stigma and the happy hormone called dopamine which makes her excited whenever the man is good enough to text or call and because she still loves him and is hooked on this, walking away becomes difficult so, yes she reaches the decision to satisfy her urges in secrets and be the innocent wife during the day as she waits. These women fast and pray and have a small circle of friends; they are classy, educated and pretty and the side guy is usually your brother( yes!), the Plumber, the drycleaner and your neighbour. It is convenient, she is lonely and these men are also good looking and neat.

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The other category are the men who are with wives in same house. They nag over everything, disrespect their wives in public, starve her of sex and tenderness, are narcissists, won’t let their wives work and even when they do, they make sure she is not able to save as they abdicate their duties as men.

Most narcissists are violent men so they beat their wives and eventually wives lose self confidence and begins to seek validation from other man just validation and one day, a nice man pays her a harmless compliment and a wife falls. And if he is great in the sack( most times after 2 to 3 meetings) husband is abandoned completely this is the stage women begin to ignore bad husbands, starts looking good and getting out of his way. Her confidence is back, another gave it to her and in extreme gratitude, she might reward him with sex.

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It is at this point good women start to slip away from their men and it is also when their men start to pay them attention. She might respond or move out but 50% of the time, a good woman will cheat on a very bad and absent ( in time and emotions) husband and 90% of good married women, will desire the body and mind of another man whether you treat them right or wrong is the determinant to sleep or not to sleep with their object of desire.

Religion and morals are not friends even the holy books understand this much and this is why words like adultery and fornication are contained therein; the holy books know it happens but warned against the devastating effect ( horrible and terrible stories abound).

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What we owe one another while dating and in marriage is to treat each other right. Just do your best and go separate ways if it isn’t working than to bring pain to a home. When hearts are broken only the big hearts walk away often times, disaster happens.

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Good women don’t just cheat, it takes years of pain, torture and betrayal caused by the men they love but cannot walk away from.

PS: This post is not the business of good men who give amazing love even from a distance. You rock, your women won’t let you down.

Goldfish Rahmatulai is an Indigene of Owan East LGA, Edo North.

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Princess Lubabatu Muhammed Writes Niger State Governor To Restructure The System Of Governance For The Interest Of All Nigerlites.

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Dear your Excellency, Sir, Governor Abubakar Sani Bello,

With due respect Sir, you should know under your watch as the Governor of Niger State things are not Moving well.

Poor people are no longer safe, Farmers are running away from their farmlands, Educational system is collapsing with no remedy, increments in Food Stuffs, High cost of commodities and living, Killing and Abduction here and there, Thieves and Armed Robbers everywhere, The Rich keep getting rich while the poor keep getting poorer with a lot of suffering, Politicians are getting more corrupts, APC party loyalist are crying for being marginalized or sideline while the oppositions refuse to smile, Poor road Networks, Poor social Amenities, High rate of prostitution and Thuggery by our teaming youths, the rate of Smokers and drug addicts keep increasing, pensioners have become street beggars, Civil Servants have become Credit and loan Customers, No standard medical Hospitals except private which is more costly, Media Houses are Dead (NSTV and NEWS LINE), Ministry and agency have nothing to show, Slashing of Salaries have become business of the Day, Commissioners are confused, Law makers are more confused, The Masses are much more Confused.

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Those poor masses that voted you with their sweat, Energy, Time and resources are the one suffering more and more.

Your Excellency sir, Remember that every souls shall test Death including me and you, and we shall all account for our Actions before Allah S.W.A. either Good or Bad.

Oh Allah come to our Aids and I pray the Governor should remember nothing last forever including the life it self.

Is not too late for you to restructure the system of your Government for the betterment of all Nigerlites.

ABU LOLO SHOULD WAKE UP AND FACE THE REALITY.

“A word is enough for the wise”

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Open Letter To Baba Buhari Why He Should Act Fast To Avert Nigeria From Depression

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By Abba Dukawa, Kano.

Officially Nigeria has entered its second recession in five years as official figures published on Saturday show that the economy shrank again in the third quarter of this year. The National Bureau of Statistics, in its Gross Domestic Product report for Q3, said the GDP, the broadest measure of economic prosperity, fell by 3.62 in the three months to September.

Last month, the World Bank revised its 2020 forecast for Nigeria’s economy to 4.1 per cent from its previous projection of -3.2 per cent, saying the country’s near-term outlook was subject to “considerable uncertainty”. The Global bank had said in June that the collapse in crude oil prices, was expected to “plunge the Nigerian economy into a severe recession, the worst since the 1980s coupled with the Covid-19 pandemic.

Unfortunately within five years Nigeria experience two recessions this resulted due to provocative policies of the previous and present administration over dependence on oil resources as a source of foreign exchange earnings to the detriment of agriculture.

Covid 19 has puts global economics in uncertainty again, Nigeria’s economy is being caught in the cross-hairs. The recession could have been avoided if administration diversifying the economy as government to formulate policey toward developing the country untapped mineral.

Now Nigeria at the second recession, above all, Nigeria must stop borrowing for anything and avoid, borrowing to pay salaries.

Now is not the time to trade blames but to focus on ways to manage the situation and called on Buhari’s government to “swallow its pride, and accept its limitations, so that they can open their minds to ideas, without caring who the messenger is. Let the executive and legislative arms expunged non conventional allowances, estacodes, welfare packages, and new vehicle purchases from the proposed 2021 budget.

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Despite the country is blessed with untapped mineral resources and there is no state in Nigeria with less than two untapped different mineral resources. Absolutely lack of foresight from our leaders for not save as much as possible especially when the crude oil price reached its peak. Had been the administration instilled disciplined and prudent management of our Commonwealth. The recession could have been avoided if administration had cut down on the cost of governance during first recession, listened to nation’s economist and other concerns Nigerians advise.

Kano Kaduna And Abuja Roads Abuja – MD of Julius Berger, Engr Lars Richer revealed that Kaduna -. Zaria will be completed in the fourth quarter of 2022, Zaria-Kano first quarter of 2023 while Abuja-Kaduna will be delivered 2025,

Who did we offend? Don’t says our northern peoples in the administration are bewitched? Stop blaming @tundefashola for deliberately sabotaging any project cited in the North but keep concentrating on southern roads. Who appointed him Good North have learn bitter lesson for voting on sectionalism.

Let Baba Buhari consider that Northern votes secured PMB’s administration first and second term, and northerners will raise voices in their demands that the administration, this time, rewards their loyalty in real terms. So now we know. Abuja-Kaduna-Zaria-Kano highway reconstruction will not be completed in the next three years.Kidnappers and bandits will also hear this. This is the most important route in the North.If you doubted that our peoples in the government do not care about the North, stop doubting.

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Lack of clear economic policies and weak institutions to blockages mismanagement and Corruption which still subsists as one of the greatest challenges facing Nigeria with .

When President Muhammadu Buhari assume office in May 29, 2015, left no one in doubt as his mission to fight corruption to a standstill. President Muhammadu Buhari on Friday received the final report of the Justice Ayo Salami-led probe panel on alleged infractions by the suspended Acting Chairman of Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), Magu was allegedly accused of corruption, mismanagement, lack of transparency in managing recovered assets by the Commission as well as abuse of office by the Attorney-General of the Federation and Minister of Justice, Abubakar Malami.

Almost 6 years the record presented by global body Transparency International on the country’s perceived corruption outlook. From 2015 till date Transparency International’s Corruption Perception Index (CPI) still gave Nigeria a low ranking oout of 180 countries surveyed. The reports are is a reflection of neither improvement nor retrogression to that of year after year where marginal improvement was recorded. This, therefore, elicits curiosity on what the missing link is between the efforts of the government against the graft and public what the perception is.

At the same time he received the report another heart breaking investigation reports published by online medium Premium Times revealed how Fashola’s ministry illegally paid ₦4.6BN into officials‘ personal accounts. It is clear violation of extant law. Payment of payments of monies into private account is clearly violates chapter 7, section 701 of the financial regulation of the country. Section 713 of the same chapter also says under no condition should personal money be paid into the government’s bank account “nor shall any public money be paid into a private bank account. Even though Ministries and Agencies are compelled by the provision “to operate only three bank accounts as follows: salary account, overhead cost account and revenue account” as “no other bank account shall be allowed without the express approval of the Accountant-General.

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It was under the watchful of our once fearful General Muhammadu Buhari the level of corruption in Nigeria has reached a height whereby it can only be curbed when these agencies rise up to the occasion to prosecute offenders irrespective of their political affiliations. Henceforth fighting corruption proved too difficult for the administration to achieve. Therefore Nigerians are alienated, angry and fed up but in real sense the corruption is fighting back as there is not much pointer supporting the administration efforts in its fight. Unfortunately, the anti-corruption agencies are more like toothless dogs that can only bark but cannot bite

Really the impressions of if Buhari catch of any wrongdoing you will face wright of the law is no longer scare anybody as the business goes as usual.

Dukawa, Kano-based journalist and Public Affairs commentator. Can be reached at abbahydukawa@gmail.com

 

 

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Why Governor Bello Should Contest 2023 Presidency — Hon Yizogembi Abwa

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Hon Yizogembi Abwa is a former Director General for GYB/CEDO Campaign Organization From Bassa LG

It is no longer news that in few years time the current occupant of Nigeria’s exalted office, President Muhammadu Buhari will complete his constitutional term of 8 years and vacate the office as required by the law.

President Buhari was elected in 2015, and he came in with a bag full of integrity and zero corruption to confront and administer the reconstruction of a tattered and battered country. To the Glory of God, a lot have been achieved and a new and better Nigeria is in the offing.

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Back home in Kogi State, Governor Yahaya Bello on assumption of office confronted head on the demons of reforms in the Security architecture of the state, civil service, infrastructure networks and Youth inclusiveness among others.

President Buhari and Governor Bello of Kogi State.

The current political scenario in the country will require a committed and forthright leader to undertake such painful but necessary decision for the greater good of it’s citizenry.

Nigerians understand clearly that leadership must be accompanied with the passion to understand and acknowledge its numerous diversities. Governor Bello have successfully administered a state so diverse by its trinity of tribes and system of engagement.

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These diversities have been harnessed into one indivisible entity through equity, equality and social justice.

Aside the age factor, Nigerians need a leader who won’t need to undergo the period of learning process that have virtually bedeviled common Nigeria leaders. There was no need to learn or factor in, a band wagon ripple in Kogi State when COVID came calling. He showed leadership by not falling.

He stood and ensured Kogi and its Citizens were safe without a lockdown. That alone takes courage and astute show of leadership capacity to achieve.
As Kogites, we must continue to pray for Governor Bello. The Presidency of Nigeria will never leave Abuja and visit just anyone. We must demand for it.

Governor Yahaya Adoza Bello of Kogi State.

“We have all participated in electing others. Its time Nigerians also reciprocate our loyalty to its emblem by electing our own. And for the Middle Belt, this is our time to shine. We must not continue retiring our brands to Abuja alone. We must try the murky waters of negotiation. We need the Presidency too”.

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Hon Yizogembi Abwa is a
former Director General for GYB/CEDO Campaign Organization From Bassa LG

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